Date a Cougar Woman Tips

So you have seen your ideal cougar woman or cub guy at the bar and made your way up to them. You have started to chat and both of you begin to smile. The person makes eye contact, touches their chest, plays with their hair and even laughs at your jokes (even though they’re not that funny!) You feel a wave of confidence, because you know they are flirting with you. How do you know? Because you have learned to read their body language and use this to your advantage.

Flirting is Easy!

Flirting is simply a way of letting the other person know you are interested in them. What’s more it is fun. It is probably the most fun part of dating a cougar woman or cub. As you both flirt, you can feel whether there is chemistry between you.

Flirting Unmasked

Flirting will probably come naturally to you, at least to a certain extent. You may find yourself smiling at the other person, catching their eye, finding reasons to touch them on the arm. All these things are natural parts of flirting . If you flirt at the right time, with someone who is flirting back with you it can be a real turn on and a great indicator that you both want to date or hook up. If however, you don’t read the signs or go overboard with flirting with someone who isn’t really interested you can end up seeming foolish and the cougar woman or cub guy will probably want to get away from you as quickly as possible.

Don’t worry, if you look out for  simple flirting body language you are bound to get it right and you can use these behaviours yourself to flirt with him/her.

1. Smiling - Yes, it is simple and you will probably do this straight away when you meet someone new, but if the other person is genuinely smiling a lot that is a good sign that they are comfortable around you.

2. Playing with hair - You may notice the person (mainly cougars in this case) touching or stroking their hair. They may wrap it around their finger or play with it.

3. Touching or licking lips - If the person brushes their fingers against their lips, or wets their lips with their tongue, they are subconsciously trying to draw attention to the area, so that you may think of kissing.

4. Mirroring you - You may find that the person who is flirting with you mirrors what you do. This is subtle and they will not copy everything you do, but they may take a drink at the same time as you, or brush their hair away from their face at the same time as you. You may find yourself doing the same thing. When two people do this they are in sync and begin to feel easy around one another.

5. Dilated pupils – It has been shown that people get dilated pupils when they see something they are interested in.

6. Legs or feet pointed towards you - They may be leaning in towards you and a cougar woman may have her legs crossed. Glance down to see whether the person’s shoes are pointed towards you.

7. Touching chest , or pushing out chest - Women cougars may draw attention to their cleavage by fiddling with a necklace, or stroking her chest. She may also push her chest forward. Men will also push their chest forward to make them seem broader.

8. Sitting with open legs - Just as women may cross their legs and point them towards you, cub men may sit with open legs, bringing attention to their area and showing they are comfortable with you.

9. Arching eyebrows - when someone does this they are showing interest. You may also notice rapid eye movment, or even winking if they are not so subtle.

10. Laughing at your jokes - If the person is laughing and generally seeming to have a good time then they are enjoying your company.

11. Touching you - The cougar or cub you are flirting with may use any excuse to touch you. As they laiugh at your joke they may reach over and touch your arm, or brush a hair out of your eyes.

12. Personal questions - As the person steers conversation to more personal areas, they may even ask if you are single. This may be a good time to exchange phone numbers.

For everyone flirting is different. For some it comes easy and for others they may be rather nervous. Cougar women generally have more experience at flirting than young cubs, so don’t worry if you feel a bit out of your depth at first. Try to be confident and smile. Smiling is a great start and will make you more attractive to the other person. Never use cheesy chat up lines and don’t go overboard on the touching at this stage. Let the other person become comfortable around you. If you have noticed them flirting with other people, they may be a flirty person and not the ideal person to ask out on a date. You will soon be able to work this out when you start talking to them.

If you would rather avoid the face to face flirting that is fun for some, but not for everyone, you may prefer online dating. Cougars and cubs can join a cougar dating site and meet each other there. You can still flirt by chatting online with people in your local area, but it is not as nerve wracking or overwhelming as approaching someone in a bar. You can still enjoy flirting when you decide to meet, but by then you will already know a bit about each other.

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Good Luck Flirts!

Today I went to the movies to see The Proposal with Ryan Reynolds and Sandra Bullock. Sandra plays a strict boss, who gets what she wants. To avoid deportation she forces Reynolds to marry her and so the comedy ensues. In real life Sandra is 12 years older than Ryan Reynolds, but in the movie she looks so great you can barely tell there is an age difference.

Sandra has a really funny nude scene with Ryan, but I have to say she looks incredibly fit and youthful. She says, “I did the nude scene to make people laugh but I realize that when people are laughing at your body you just have to accept it as a good thing,” she said. “I’m trying to accept that laughing at my nakedness is a good thing.” I guess she doesn’t realize how great she looks.Her co star does though, he says she, “looks terrific naked”.

I never realized how gorgeous she is until watching this movie. Go Sandra!

Daniel Radcliffe is best known for playing Harry Potter, but it turns out that the other role he likes to play is the younger man. Daniel said that he lost his virginity to a much older woman at 16 years old and generally dates older women, as “Girls my own age are not really an option. I find, generally speaking, they have to be entertained more than older girls do,” Cougars it’s time to get your claws out!

If you are a cougar woman you may want to dress in a certain way to attract younger men. There is a common misconception that all cougar women should go for the mutton dressed as lamb look, flashing all of their flesh, squeezing their breasts together and plastering make up all over their face, to create a look that could rival even the most outrageous make up counter girls.

The fact is that young guys will prefer it if you dress your age – sexy, but sophisticated. After all they would be with a younger girl if they wanted to. Sure you can show off your best assets, but not all at once and only if you have the figure for it. So here are some tips to help you dress seductively, whilst remaining one classy cougar.

1. Wear natural make up – It is a good thing to use make up to enhance what you already have, but keep it natural. Piling on tons of brightly coloured make up will only make you look like a transvestite.

2. Show ONE sexy area – The kind of cougar women that guys are more likely to laugh at  than hook up with are the ones flashing the most skin. I know you are probably fit and gorgeous, but this is a rule even young women should stick to. Flash either your legs, cleavage, back or midriff and to be honest ladies, unless you’re on the beach try to avoid the midriff. Do  not show all these bits off at once, or you will look like a tramp. Show off a bit of flesh to get the cub’s attention, but leave the rest to the imagination.

3. Draw attention to that sexy area – Once you have decided which bit to show off (the best bit obviously) subtly draw attention to it. A pretty necklace will draw the eyes to your chest, a good fake tan (not orange!) can show off long legs and a sexy back.

4. Choose colours that work with your skin tone – Stand in front of the mirror and try on a few different coloured clothes. You will soon see which colours make you look healthy and glowing and which make you look a bit ill.

5. Wear sexy underwear – Sure your chosen cub won’t see it (unless you want him to), but sexy undies, ideally with a bit of support or a boost, will make you feel more confident and just as gorgeous as all those young things at the bar.

6. Wear high heels – A fantastic pair of shoes will make you stand tall and feel more confident and sexy, plus they will make your bum look great and so much tighter. What a great excuse to go shopping!

7. Smile! – Wearing a smile is the most important accessory for any classy cougar. Not only will you feel better when you smile, but guys will see you as more approachable. A smile shows a woman who likes to have fun and doesn’t take herself too seriously.

If you want to date a hot cub, but don’t want to go through all the effort of going out on the pull, why not try an online dating site like CougarDateLink? The site is free to join and it is really easy to create a profile, plus there are tons of cubs just waiting to meet you.

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Another beautiful couple bites the dust. Hot hockey player Jarret Stoll has called off his engagment with former model, Rachel Hunter. Rachel is 13 years older than Jarret at almost 40 years old. They look so good together it is a shame they couldn’t make it work. They certainly would have had a beautiful baby.

Jarret has called off the engagement two months before the wedding and has not provided an explanation, leaving poor Rachel in the dark as to what is going on. A source close to Rachel says that she is “devastated”. It seems that Jarret has a serious case of cold feet.