Date a Cougar Woman Tips

Imagine spending three nights on a luxury cruise ship, full of hot cougars and cubs. This could be reality if you book one of the new Cougar Cruises from The Singles Travel Company and The Society of Single Professionals. The first sell out cougar cruise set sail on December 4th 2009 and there are many more planned. I can only imagine how much fun was had on this ship, with so many cougars and cubs looking to hook up in one relatively small area.

There was a stop off at Ensenada in Mexico where guests could explore the area and even do a spot of horseback riding.

300 spaces were booked on the 2,052-capacity ship by cougars and cubs from around the world and there was also a waiting list.

Rich Gosse, chairman of The Society of Single Professionals, said the cruise had been a success.

He said: ‘We had 300 cougars and cubs and lots of parties. Lots of people had fun. What they did behind closed doors I cannot comment on because I wasn’t there.

‘Cubs are finally awakening to the fact that cougars make suitable partners.’

Mr Gosse added that feedback from fellow passengers who had not booked as a cougar or a cub had been positive.

‘The truth is that there are millions of American men who find older women attractive, and we will prove it on the Cougar Cruise.’

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Happy New Year Cougars and Cubs! I hope you are all enjoying fabulous New Year’s Eve parties and are looking forward to an amazing 2010.

I am a big fan of New Year’s Resolutions and have made a list as long as your arm of things to achieve and change about myself in 2010. A couple of years ago I made the New Years Resolution to date a hot older cougar woman. I wasn’t exactly sure how to achieve this at the time, but I set about going to the bars and clubs that I knew classy, mature ladies would be hanging out in. Sure enough I achieved my goal of dating a cougar within a week or so, but I had to put myself out there. I suited up and used the expensive cologne a previous girlfriend had given me. I had a couple of drinks and went out with friends to boost my confidence and then I went for it. No cheesy chat up lines, just confidence and a respect for hot cougar women.

That’s how I got my first date with a cougar (well hook up) and it was a night to remember. Not long after that, after being urged on by my friends, I joined a cougar dating site. After filling in a detailed profile and adding a good photo of myself, I was amazed when older women started flirting with me! No more getting rejected, spending hours tracking down hot cougars  or being made to feel like a fool. I was able to find hundreds of cougar women in my local area, all wanting to hook up.

Sure some of them wanted serious relationships (which wasn’t so much for me at the time), but I could easily check what they were looking for, just by reading their profiles. We could chat online and send flirts to each other, before even meeting up. This is the best way to meet women.

So why not make it your 2010 New Year’s Resolution to hook up with a hot older cougar (or a young, sexy cub if you are a lady)?

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So you want to know how to hook up with a hot cougar mom? Sure it can be confusing at first when you think to yourself, where am I meant to find these hot cougar moms to date and how do I go about hooking up with them?

Don’t fret guys it is easier than you think, all you need is a little help. The first thing you should know is that you don’t have to be a social butterfly to go out and find a hot cougar mom to hook up with, you can do it from the comfort of your own home. Ever heard of a little thing called online dating? Well, there are special online dating sites dedicated to bringing together young guys with a hot cougar mom and mostly they are free to join (sure you may want to upgrade later if you really get into it).

If you want to you can sign up to a cougar dating site for free, check it out, see if it is for you and create your profile, so that hot cougar moms can actually track you down.

If you are more of a confident and outgoing person you may wish to check out some exclusive bars, or club. Hot cougar moms tend to be very outgoing when it comes to flirting and tracking down their prey, so they will often frequent pubs and clubs that are favourites of football and rugby clubs. They know they can find hot young guys there. So why shouldn’t you be one of them?

Make an effort before you go out. Wear smart clothes,either a suit or something more casual depending on where you are going for the night. Dab on an expensive cologne and let your confidence exude. If you hang around in the right places it won’t be long before a hot cougar mom approaches you.

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This week I am reviewing the Number 1 cougar dating site, dateacougar.com. This site is very popular and therefore has loads of members. I was pleasantly surprised how many cougars and cubs were in my area, looking to date. It is always nice to have a choice! Before I even signed up I could see which cougars in my area were online. I could only see their photos at this stage, but it was good to see some of the people I could be chatting with soon. It also told me the total number of cougars in my area who had signed up. However, once I was online I found many more people who were not far at all from my area.

I was able to set up my profile and have a look around the site for free, which was great. Set up was pretty standard, just a matter of entering my name, email address and date of birth. After that I just had to enter a brief headline for myself (attractive businessman seeks older woman) and a description. This can be brief if you just want to get online, but it pays to take time to write a full description. The more detail you add, the more likely hot cougar women are to initiate chat with you. Fill this area in with details about yourself, such as hobbies, likes and dislikes and interesting things about yourself. It is the perfect opportunity to set yourself apart from the rest.

You then click Create Account and that’s it. Your account is created. You will be taken to a billing page which explains membership options. Here you can sign up for a free 3 day trial with all the benefits of full membership, or upgrade straight away to begin chatting with cougar women and arranging your dates and hook ups.

The other option is to click at the bottom of the page where it says members area. A free membership is quite limited, but you can check out cougar profiles in your area and even begin chatting. The site tells you whether someone is online. It also tells you how many miles away they live from you.  I upgraded after the first day, as it was so much better and good value for money. Once cougars saw I had upgraded they obviously realized I was serious and I started to get a lot of messages.

I added my photos and more information about myself. Uploading a photo increases your chances of getting a message by 85%. You probably wouldn’t contact a cougar woman who didn’t have a photo up after all.

Other features of the site include the ability to send someone a ‘flirt’. This is a way of showing them that you are interested, without sending a full message. They can choose to send you a flirt back. You have an Inbox, where you can check all your messages from cougar women, as well as any admin messages with updates etc. If you don’t want people to see you are online then you can choose to go invisible. A handy feature if you are editing your profile.

You can also add favorites, add people to your little black book, which will show you when they are online. You can also block people you want to avoid. You can upload multiple photos of yourself (the more you upload, the more responses you will get), chat in the chat room and check out who has viewed your profile. Of course you can update your profile at any time.

After joining you will recieve a welcome email with instructions on how to use the site. You probably won’t need any help, as the site is self explanatory and very easy to navigate. I was amazed at how many gorgeous women were online at the exact time I signed up.

The money I paid to join the full membership at dateacougar.com was well worth it. When I compare it to all the money I would have spent going out to bars and clubs trying to meet women. You can always choose a free membership to start and then upgrade later.

For cougar women there is a good ratio of  men to women, so it is a great site to join. So far I have been more than happy with my membership at dateacougar.com and will continue to use it for many dates in the future. Perhaps I will even meet Ms Right.

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Some of you probably love the thrill of the chase, chatting up a cougar woman and winning her over. For others, who are perhaps, more shy, you may prefer if she approached you. The good news is that cougar women generally enjoy actively seeking out hot young men. Part of the reason for the cougar label, is because cougars are not only beautiful animals, but also successful hunters.

So to get a cougar woman to approach you first (making the whole thing easier for you), you shouldn’t need to work too hard. Here are some tips to help you out.

1. Is she a cougar woman? If the woman is over 35, well dressed (often seductively), and without a wedding ring, she could be a cougar woman. She will often have a confident personality and may seem to be the life and soul of the party.

2. If you are sitting with friends, smile and laugh along with them. You will find a cougar woman is more likely to be attracted to you if you seem like a fun, relaxed guy.

3. Try to make eye contact with the cougar woman. Look in her direction and she should return your look. When you catch her eye, smile. Try to do this a few times. After making eye contact, look away, you don’t want to seem creepy.

4. Dress to impress. Cougar women look after themselves and are generally in good shape and well groomed. You should be too. Cougars may find it fun to hook up with younger men, but they don’t want a scruffy yob. Part of the appeal of dating a younger guy, is that they are generally fitter and better looking than older men.

5. Choose a table where she can see you. It sounds obvious, but when you choose your table, make sure you are somewhere where it is easy to make eye contact and let her check you out.

6. Body language. As you sit at your table, or stand at the bar, use your body language to encourage her to approach you. Keep good posture. This will help you appear confident and make your shoulders appear broader and more manly. Smile, it makes you seem so much more approachable. Sit with your legs apart, making you appear open and confident. Point your body towards her. If you are standing, be sure your feet point in her direction. She will pick up on these things subconsciously.

7. Wear a nice cologne. Take a girl friend shopping and get their opinion when choosing a nice after shave. Women can get turned on by smell and it may help attract them. Don’t drown yourself in it, just a splash.

8. Walk past her. Draw attention to yourself by walking right past her. If it is busy, you may have an excuse to brush up against her (this is the cologne’s time to work it’s magic).

9 Draw attention to yourself. Laugh, go to the bar to order drinks if she is there. Make her notice you.

10. Take action. Ok, so none of this has worked? You can still go up and offer to buy her a drink. Not all cougar women are super predatory

11. Online Dating. If all this is a bit overwhelming, why not try an online cougar dating site? There are several sites that specialize in cougar dating and you will find loads of cougar women in your local area, who are available to date. The good thing about this is that you can join for free and check out cougar profiles, before you make contact. That means you can check out photos and info before initiating chat. Even better, if you fill out your profile and add some pics, you will get loads of cougar women contacting you! This is probably the easiest way to get cougar women to approach you first. Try to provide as much info as possible for the best results.

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