Dating Older Women- Top Tips
Wednesday, April 28th, 2010The first thing you have to understand if you want to get into a relationship with an older lady is that she has more life experience than young girls, she also may have more baggage i.e.) kids, ex-husband, or even a husband.
Besides the baggage and experience that comes with dating them, some cougar women may be looking for marriage and having kids. Their biological clocks may be ticking and they may really want to have children and will expect you to want the same. This is something you have to seriously think about, because if it is not what you want, then you should make it clear to her, to avoid heart break.
On the other hand there are older women that want to date younger men for pure pleasure and will not expect any deep levels of commitment in return. They like the idea of dating younger men, as it makes them feel younger. They want to have a bit of fun and if you can show them a good time and are able to please them, then this might be a great relationship, if that is what you are also looking for. Many guys love the idea of dating older women and have had quite a few meaningful and fun relationships with them.
In any event, I don’t like to generalize about a group of people. There are cougars that want a serious relationship, kids and the whole shebang and others that just want hot sex. The most important thing is to have an open-mind and more importantly to discuss with your potential partner what you are looking for in a relationship, what they are looking for and whether this is something the two of you can see working out. This will avoid complications, difficult challenges and pain in the future.
To make things even easier you can try a cougar dating site where you can meet lots of cougar women hoping to hook up. Their profiles will state what kind of relationship they are looking for and you can do the same in your profile. To check one out click here.






