Urban Cougar Dos and Don’ts
If you want to be a classy cougar, then you could do worse than follow these tips:
Do
Do be an independent woman. Believe in yourself and feel confident
Do dress in sexy clothes, but make sure you are still classy. Flash either arms, legs or chest, not all three.
Do go after what you want
Do be open minded and willing to try new things, adverntures will keep you young
Do look after your body. Stay healthy and look good.
Don’t
Don’t feel embarrassed just because you are dating someone younger. No one would think anything of it if you were a man, so embrace your inner cougar and be proud.
Don’t worry about competing with younger girls when you are out and about. Your guy likes you and jealousy will get you nowhere. He is with you for a reason.
Don’t treat him as a trophy boyfriend. He needs to feel valued for being more than just arm candy. So when you introduce him to family and friends be sure to let him be himself.
Don’t shower him with presents. Sure the odd gift is nice, but there is a big difference between a sugar mama and a cougar.
Don’t take over all the money responsibilities. Men like to feel they are the provider, so let him pay for somethings.
Don’t expect him to do everything you say. He is not your slave boy. If he is good with DIY that is great, but that is not why you should be with him.
Don’t be a try hard. You may not fit in with his friends, as they may not be as mature as him, but don’t worry. You are who you are.
Don’t spend all yout time trying to meet men in bars. A lot of cougar women find it easier to sign up for a dating site and meet cubs in their local area that way.
